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Greetings in the love of Christ. Here is a picture of Jennifer with Mika. They know how to build each other up with lots of love. As promised during my sermon last Sunday, I am sending you the following practical wisdom on how to “build each other up.”

 

Created as relational beings, it’s our greatest privilege to enjoy companionship with the people who truly matter in our lives. How can we then be a source of encouragement to our friends, family, and loved ones today?

 

Here’s 10 simple ways to build each other up:

    1. Esteem others higher. Leaders esteem others higher than themselves. Have high regards, great respect, and favorable thoughts of the people in your circle of trust and influence.

 

    1. Be wise in your speech. Communicate more effectively by thinking before you speak. If there’s a word that’s more appropriate in a conversation, use it. Start with a praise. Never confront others. Instead, point out on how both of you can make things better. Speak at the same level as your audience; giving them due respect. There’s no need to come in with an authoritarian voice to get your message heard.

 

    1. Be encouraging. Encouragement is an expression and assurance of one’s hope and future in words, presence, and sincerity.

 

    1. Be quick to forgive. When others make a mistake, be quick to forgive and forget; releasing them from guilt and shame that may take root in one’s heart when not dealt with over time.

 

    1. Be understanding. Wisdom and understanding go hand in hand. Understanding starts by being an active listener (not planning a reply as one is speaking), asking intelligent questions to gain further insights, and being accepting of what the speaker is sharing. Then, answer without condemning. Or don’t answer at all and decide to just be a listening ear.

 

    1. Zero gossip. Keep others’ secrets. Never speak stuff that causes unnecessary hurt to others by speaking unclaimed rumors behind their back.

 

    1. Share knowledge. Found an article or book that’s useful? Share it with your friends. Sharing has been made easier thanks to the accessibility of sharing tools on the web, along with help from social media sites such as Twitter and Facebook. Sharing knowledge helps us learn, discover, and understand things that are interesting. They have immediate application for better results in our work and life, edifies our soul, and improves our daily conversations.

 

    1. Stay humble. Humility and maturity are synonymous. A dignified person accomplishes much, but brags little. They are secure in their standing without needing to make noise, often treating everyone with tremendous respect, regardless of position.

 

    1. Offer them Positive Motivation! Positive thinking goes beyond having the drive and motivation for personal success. Positive thinking is explicit, definite, and outspoken. It’s contagious. Build up your loved ones with your positiveness, allowing them to be open for better things to come. Offer them positive motivation, words like challenge, dreams, vision, are words that should not be minimized. They are strong words, power words and they all come down to motivation. Ephesians 4:1 says: “. . . I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.”

 

  1. Love all the way. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails . . . And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” (1 Corinthians 13, NIV). Building up a person with the 9 ways mentioned is only made effective when done so together with love. Care for your loved ones how you would want to be cared for. Build up one another how you would like to be inspired. As a result, you will move up to a whole new level of breakthroughs in life.

 

Going one step further, visualize how and to whom you can build up and inspire changes for the better. Then work towards making that a reality. Continue encouraging and building one another up. And start seeing growth and advancements in your relationship with people and to the ones who truly matter to you today.

 

Next Sunday, Jack Scharf will deliver a special message on “Do You Want to Get Well?” Maybe you didn’t know you were in need of healing, but we all are! See why this coming Sunday. Also, we will be baptizing our newest member into the family of God – Jessica Hope Provel. Come celebrate with us!

 

I will return to Morristown on November 11th. God bless and see you in Church.

In Love and Joy,
Brandon